I’ve always been a perfectionist and an overachiever. In fact, I came out of my mama’s womb 6 weeks early; everything was fine, I was just ready to go. Through all my formative years, getting things done efficiently and exactly the way I wanted to was always the priority. Of course, it was no surprise to anyone who knows me that when I became pregnant with my first child, I was already one step ahead. My name list was ready for my husband to look over, my registry was done within two days of conceiving, and my complete birth plan took about a month to get put together exactly the…