Creating a joyful, purpose-filled home is one of the most rewarding experiences, but it also takes dedication, heart, and a strong foundation in faith. Embracing a home-centered life isn’t just about managing chores; it’s about inviting God’s joy into our everyday tasks, no matter how small. Let’s explore ways to find true contentment and joy in the home by leaning on Biblical principles.
Homemaking is a radical act in a society that values boss babes and climbing the corporate ladder. Now don’t get me wrong. I didn’t always think that. No, I was a bit more spicy in what I thought success should look like in my younger years.
As many of you know, we are a family of 6 soon to be 7, which apparently according to the US Census Bureau actually constitutes a large family. I’m not sure I’m ready to call us a large family, but I’m certainly finding that we’re an above-average-sized family. We’re a homeschooling, homesteading lifestyle family with two working parents.
Sometimes people ask me, “How do you manage your home so well?” or “How do you get everyone done?” and occasionally “How can you still find joy?” Simple and easy are not the same thing, but when we get different systems in place we will find that our systems do make our lives more simple.
Now, I’ve already tackled the subjects of our homeschooling routine and my home management system, so I won’t dive into that too much, I’ll link the YouTube videos on those subjects and the blog posts below for your convenience.
- Our Homeschool Routine on YouTube
- Our Homeschool Routine Blog Post
- How to be a Productive Homemaker on YouTube
- How to be a Productive Homemaker Blog Post
- My Home Management Binder
In today’s episode (on YouTube) we’ll explore how to infuse joy, purpose, and meaning into our homes. Whether you live alone or have a large family, a home-centered life can become a place where God’s love thrives. Because I’ve already covered some of the practical elements of finding productivity in a home, we’re going to do a high-level look at joy in the home and take our job seriously as we strive for a home-centered lifestyle.
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Finding Joy in the Home
Home is not just a physical space. What are your values? Is your emphasis on creating an aesthetically pleasing home? Or is it on building relationships and cultivating a legacy? I’m going to guess it’s the latter. Homemakers, we are here to build a home that is meaningful and courageous.
Yes, this is what we fight for.
Finding joy in homemaking is about embracing the beauty of caring for our homes. Proverbs 31:27 speaks to the beauty of diligent work at home, saying,
“She looks well to the ways of her household and does not eat the bread of idleness.”
Proverbs 31:27 ESV
I find that homemaking is more than just a list of chores; it’s about pouring love into every corner of our homes and obeying God at every turn. This means that it doesn’t matter how big your home is, it doesn’t matter what type of car you drive (uffda preaching to myself on that one), it doesn’t matter if you have a big yard, it doesn’t matter if your kitchen flood has cracks, or if your bathroom has peeling linoleum, or perfect dishware and linens.
These things are not the point. These things can be a point of pleasure, but they are not our ultimate mission. Finding joy in homemaking means that we understand our mission and our purpose, which is the people within its walls.
However, adding a joyful touch of cozy spaces to our homemaking isn’t a bad thing. I especially love adding lighting to my home this time of year. As it gets darker and stays darker longer, I need that glow in our home. I actually have a list of my favorite battery/rechargeable lights that don’t require extra wiring if you want to add some easy lighting to your home.
But you don’t have to buy something to create ‘cozy’. A thoughtful injection of color, perhaps with your favorite pillows or old pieces that hold memories, can transform a room. Homemaking is an art—arranging things in a way that reflects God’s love and warmth. Homemaking isn’t about creating a perfect space but crafting an environment that offers peace and rest, which is a gift to everyone who walks through your doors. Again, it’s the people, not the things.
Faith and Your ‘Why’
Fighting for the home is about protecting the place where relationships can thrive, traditions are honored, and love is nurtured. That’s my ‘why’ for homemaking and there is no topic I’d rather talk about than how we can use the home as a tool to create a bounty for their family.
Proverbs 24:3-4 offers timeless wisdom:
“By wisdom a house is built, and by understanding it is established; by knowledge, the rooms are filled with all precious and pleasant riches.”
Proverbs 24:3-4 ESV
It’s not our wisdom though. It’s our Father in heaven.
Why do you want to create a home that’s centered around God’s love? Reflecting on this question can deepen your motivation. Perhaps you want to create a haven where life’s joys are celebrated, or you want your home to be a place where your large family can gather and grow. Anchoring homemaking in our faith lets us see the value of each task as a way to serve and show God’s love.
Having a clear “why” also helps us approach household tasks with joy. Instead of seeing them as mere duties, we can view them as opportunities to glorify God.
Family Mission Statement Framed Art on Etsy
As Colossians 3:23 reminds us,
“Whatever you do, work heartily, as for the Lord and not for men.”
Colossians 3:23 ESV
With faith as our guide, homemaking becomes a calling rather than a chore.
Take Your Job Seriously
Make no mistake, this is a job and I’m going to guess that if you bring 50% of yourself to a job you’re being paid for, you won’t get very far. In the same way when we are creating a home, if we only offer 50%, we’re not going to get very far in creating this haven for our families.
Homemaking is more than chores; it’s about thoughtful planning, love, and creating a place of belonging. Titus 2:5 advises women to be “self-controlled, pure, working at home, kind.” Homemaking is a valuable endeavor. This role requires discipline, dedication, and time management—qualities that make a home-centered life sustainable.
Effective time management helps us balance our home-centered goals with other commitments. Planning ahead and setting achievable, daily goals can make all the difference.
Seeing your work as important and worthy can shift how you feel about it. At the end of the day, we can rest knowing that each small act—whether it’s doing laundry or cooking a meal—was done with love. Our efforts may seem small, but in God’s hands, even the little things matter. We will find joy in the home when we take these things seriously.
Household Management
Managing a household requires intentionality and a bit of creativity. Don’t think of household management as a list of chores but as a practical way of showing care and love for your family. Proverbs 31:15 depicts a godly woman as one who rises early and provides for her household, reminding us that there’s purpose in the practical details of homemaking.
Of course, you can always check out my monthly homemaking binder and membership. The membership includes a monthly email with the monthly homemaking planner, Bible reading plan, spiritual growth section, meal planning section, self-care section, and much more. There’s a free planner on my website, but the membership is about the cost of a fancy cup of coffee, $5.
I’m not an experienced homemaker. I’m sure some would say I’m still in the infancy of being a homemaker. But even in my naive stage, I have found that systems are my saving grace. Maybe you’ve found the same. Having systems for cleaning, cooking, and even budgeting can save time and reduce stress. Meal planning, for instance, can be a perfect mix of routine and creativity; you can plan nutritious meals while leaving room to try new recipes that your family might love.
Here are a few that I’m loving right now.
A home-centered life isn’t about rigid routines but about finding what works for your unique household. For some, this might mean embracing flexibility, especially if you have little ones or a bustling schedule. Finding that unifying thread of routines that suit your family’s needs can create peace and order.
Find Joy in the Little Things
A home-centered life thrives on small moments of joy. These small things, when done with love, create an atmosphere that is comforting and uplifting.
“May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace in believing, so that by the power of the Holy Spirit you may abound in hope.”
Romans 15:13 ESV
We can cultivate that joy in the home by appreciating the beauty in the ordinary.
One of the easiest ways to do this is by finding contentment in what you already have. Old pieces, like an heirloom chair or a vintage tea set, can bring warmth to a room and remind us of the past. Look for ways to add beauty to your home, whether it’s fresh flowers, the glow of a candle, or a special corner where you can read and relax. These pockets of peace will refresh your day.
Another way to embrace life’s joys is through rest. Making time for small breaks throughout the day allows us to appreciate God’s blessings. Take a moment to step outside, enjoy a cup of tea, or simply sit and breathe. These little moments of rest can recharge us, giving us strength to pour back into our homes and families.
A Home-Centered Life
Creating a home-centered life is about making your house a place of refuge, peace, and joy. Psalm 127:1 reminds us,
“Unless the Lord builds the house, those who build it labor in vain.”
Psalms 127:1 ESV
Letting God be the foundation of your home brings purpose to everything you do.
I’m starting to teach my kids something new I learned and it’s called J-O-Y.
Jesus first
Others Second
You Last
When we get this right our home runs smoothly. When we get it backward “YOJ” our house is chaos.
A home centered on God’s love becomes a beacon of light for everyone who steps inside. It’s not about achieving perfection, but about inviting God’s presence into every corner, knowing that He is the unifying thread holding everything together.
This week my kids asked me to make them hot chocolate on a cold and rainy October day. My first instinct was to say no. I quickly realized as I looked at my blond-haired blue-eyes boys that this question was not about drinking hot chocolate, but their way of asking for a moment with their mama. I had gotten “JOY” backward that day and I needed to bring back “JOY” in my own life if I expected them to prioritize it.
When our homes are centered around faith, they become places of joy, resilience, and comfort. Each day offers a new goal, a fresh chance to serve God in our homes. And at the end of the day, when you look around at your own house, you can be at peace knowing that the life you’re building is one that reflects God’s love.
Living a home-centered life is about more than just homemaking; it’s about weaving God’s love into the fabric of daily life, turning simple acts into expressions of faith. Homemaking becomes a beautiful journey of love, faith, and purpose that blesses everyone who enters your door.